Dear Uncle FN,
“My name is Susan and I am madly in love with a guy which I made him aware of how I felt. However, the guy says he likes me too but not to the extent that he would go into a relationship simply because he is not ready to date. (But that’s a lie because I later found out he was actually in a relationship).
Honestly, I get very jealous when I see the guy with other girls and sometimes show it but the guy almost always shuts me down.
We actually got really intimate (sexual intercourse) too. However, I recently found out the guy slept with another lady because I saw found a lady’s underwear in his room and confronted him about it.
Seriously I am really in love with this guy that I will do anything for him. I even buy stuffs for him and give him money even when I don’t have it.
On one occasion, I had tried questioning him on why he acts how he does with me even after we are very intimate and he replied that he doesn’t owe me any explanation because I am not is not his girlfriend…. I however hope that things will work out for us.
I’m confused on what to do now, please help me.”