Dear uncle FN,
I am a young woman by name Nancy. I am currently going for marriage counseling with a young man who will soon be my husband.
I met him at my friend’s wedding a year ago and started a relationship leading to marriage. Before I met him, I had a piece of land on which I intent to build my own house and business, he was also building on his land and almost done.
Currently he is staying in their family house and I don’t want to stay there with him after marriage so, he requested that I should forgo my project for now and assist him to complete his own.
Although I am supporting him on his project feel insecure about the whole thing.
Uncle, Please am I doing the right thing?